What I’m about to share will transform the root cause of why the love and affection in your relationship has wilted like your favorite flower on a hot summer’s day.
And if you’re dating someone, and they have suddenly pulled away and you’re left agonizing over what went wrong and dissecting texts over and over again in case you find a new clue that explains why his affection has flipped from hot to cold, you’re going to know exactly what to do to inspire him to step up and claim you once more.
And the best part?
Unlike a lot of relationship advice, what I’m about to share involves you doing about 90% less “relationship fixing” than what you’ve currently been doing, and it speaks to the primal instincts of a man.
What’s more, it’s going to make you feel confident, sensual, fun, juicy and alive… and will transform your insecure “love energy” – the very energy that pushes men away – once and for all.
The end result?
You’ll finally understand men in a way most women never do, and you’ll become magnetic to your man – and to all men – and almost overnight, too.
But before I share my “effortless relationship fix formula,” let me tell you a story…
When my marriage first started to go bad, it came out of NOWHERE.
He’d always paid me so much attention and I believed we were deeply connected.
But then it just went cold.
All of a sudden it seemed that he had no interest in me.
Work was more important.
Playing music was more important.
His friends and family were more important.
I became desperately unhappy and my anxiety level went through the roof.
If he wanted a moment to himself, I took it as a rejection.
When he’d forget to take out the garbage, or not do things for me that he’d automatically done before, I felt frustrated – and then I started to feel scared that he’d NEVER take care of me again.
My fear and insecurity caused me to start doing everything wrong.
I started pushing him so far away that I might as well have been shoving him with my fists.
I tried everything I knew.
I was nicer, I cooked more, I cleaned up more, I took care of our daughter and I tried to stay out of the way when he was playing with her so they could have some one-on-one time.
I tried initiating sex… and was turned down. This alone almost destroyed what was left of my dwindling self-esteem.
Over time, my husband withdrew more and more, and soon we turned to therapy… thinking it was the big move we needed to fix things.
But all therapy did was make me angrier – at him, and at myself for not knowing how to fix “us”… and for things being the way they were in the first place.
I thought we were done for.
I felt helpless, hopeless, undesirable and stupid. And really, really angry.
Over time, I recognized that 3 painful mistakes were at THE ROOT of everything that was going wrong in my marriage.
And throughout my 20+ years of experience as a dating and relationship coach, I’ve helped thousands of women “undo the damage” caused by these very common relationship-destroying mistakes.
If you’re anything like a lot of women, you’ve probably been taught to hold in certain kinds of feelings.
Like anger, frustration and sadness.
For example, when your man starts making zero effort to plan dates or to celebrate you when something important has happened in your life.
You’ve probably been taught to suck it up, put on a smiley face, and act like the “cool girl” who is super easy going when the latest work stress or money worries take over.
You’ve probably been taught to nurture your man and give him space when he’s going through a rough period.
To put your own unmet needs for connection, intimacy and consistency on the backburner (again), even though it’s making you completely miserable (again).
And the real kicker?
Instead of this bringing him closer, this actually pushes him FURTHER away.
That’s because when you’re too understanding of a man’s bad behavior, he often views you as being needy and insecure. Plus, being on the receiving end of too much “nurturing” from a woman reminds him of his mother – and that’s just not sexy or appealing to a man.
What’s more, when you do this long enough, you lose the ability to express yourself authentically.
And when you do finally express yourself, you feel unsatisfied because you had to ask.
Your words are laced with resentment and sound like you don’t trust or respect him, which makes him feel like you don’t need him, or that he’s a massive disappointment.
Ever feel fairly confident when you first start dating a man?
Especially when he’s lighting up your phone every day with sweet messages and always asking when he can see you next.
But as soon as there’s a shift in his behavior, for example, he takes longer to respond to your texts and is no longer asking you out for romantic dinner dates on the weekend, your confidence plummets.
You start to feel needy and desperate to hear from him again. You check your phone constantly, and even carry it from room to room, just in case he texts.
You become so anxious, your nervous system goes into overdrive. You have trouble staying present in conversations and wake up during the night to check your phone.
When this happens – you give your self-worth and power away. All of a sudden a man’s validation becomes more important than your own, and men can actually feel this.
Or if you’re in a committed relationship, maybe when your partner becomes more and more distant with you, you begin to wonder whether he still loves you. You question your self-worth and feel paralyzed by fear and anger.
You assume his change in behavior must have something to do with you.
You try to talk about it with him, but this makes everything worse because you’re both in triggered, wounded states – as a result, every word turns into a big argument, and soon you’re either fighting all the time, or you’re stuffing your real feelings down to avoid conflict.
This one’s a tricky one.
I want to be clear here: there is NOTHING wrong with having masculine energy.
In fact, we all have it to varying degrees. And this action-oriented energy is needed to do things in the world, like fixing problems, running households, working and taking decisive action.
To get ahead in life, us women have had to learn how to hone our masculine energy, to strengthen it, and to boldly step into it. The tough part is, this same energy doesn’t work in a romantic relationship if you’re with a man whose dominant energy is masculine.
When you lead with this energy in your love life – and you’re constantly trying to fix, control and lead things – your man starts to feel replaced, less needed, less attracted… and less like a man who wants to provide, impress and protect you.
Over time, it’s like having two batteries with the same charge: they don’t work.
For batteries to work, you need a negative and positive terminal. And the same is true in romantic relationships, you need opposing forces: masculine and feminine energies.
In short, my marriage was falling apart because:
💔 Our relationship had become disconnected because the dynamic that had caused so much love and attraction to begin with – our invisible energy exchange – had changed and lost its natural magnetic charge. I was stuck in “fix it” mode and was wearing my “masculine hat” to get closer to a masculine man, which pushed him away.
💔 I didn’t know how to skillfully and authentically express my thoughts and emotions – I would mask my real feelings and people-please to the nth degree. I thought this would make him happy, but it broke our connection because he couldn’t feel the real me (and neither could I).
💔 My insecure “love energy” – which was always bubbling beneath the surface – became even more activated once he started pulling away, which sent my anxiety and insecurity into overdrive. I became obsessed with how much he was or wasn’t loving me. I lost touch with myself and the radiant woman he fell in love with. The more I leaned in to problem-solve and get his validation, the more he pulled away.
Eventually, my husband had withdrawn so much that I could no longer pretend it wasn’t really happening, I’d been “putting a good face” on things for too long.
I’d been making the three mistakes over and over and over again.
I was trying hard to prove I was the great wife I wanted him to see me as. I spent my life trying hard to make him happy.
Until I finally tried something I’d never tried before. I STOPPED TRYING.
I stopped asking him to do things – and more importantly – I stopped doing them myself.
I focused on making myself happy instead of trying to make HIM happy.
I spoke to him differently and experimented with letting him know how I was feeling instead of keeping everything bottled up.
And it worked.
Within about two weeks, everything changed. Once I experimented with a new way of doing things, my man responded in a new way.
All the fights stopped.
Sex came back, strong.
It was as if there had always been the easy communication and love flowing between us that I was now experiencing.
And it was just so clear to me, and so obvious to everyone who saw us together, that everything about our relationship was different and incredibly, newly wonderful.
The years and pain of all the trial-and-error I went through finally got me to the place where I was able to relate to men in a completely new way.
In a way that could bring them close, open their hearts, and make them never want to leave.
Which is why I created…
In just 6 modules, you’ll learn how to connect with your feminine power, improve how you verbally and physically communicate, and how to master the art of doing about 90% less to transform your relationship.
The videos, exercises and tools I share are designed to get you out of your head and into your body.
I’ll teach you how to EMBODY what you feel – not through more logic and overthinking – but through your body language, emotions and your words.
My “do less to get more” approach speaks to a man’s primal instinct to come forward and claim you as his woman. (Well, any man that’s worth having in your life).
And the best part? It makes you feel great.
When you stop controlling, stop fixing, stop chasing and stop letting your insecurities rule you, you make space for the qualities that make a man feel deep love and attraction.
Such as radiance, self-respect, confidence and a loving connection to yourself.
These are the secrets to becoming magnetic to a man (and making him want to commit to you forever), and my Reconnect Your Relationship program will teach you how to amplify them by about 10x, and almost overnight, too.
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…plus an in-depth session where I answer questions from women like you – single, married, and divorced
… and MUCH, MUCH MORE.
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If you’re in a relationship, you might keep bringing your unhappiness up and trying to fix it, which keeps you stuck in a loop of you feeling exhausted and like you need to “work” on it… causing him to retreat even further because he’s feeling like a disappointment.
You might even try couples therapy, which may not even get to the underlying problem (unless the therapist is trained in these energetic nuances… many are not.).
You might conclude it’s better to break up, and hope that the next relationship will be better.
That the guy must be the problem.
Until the next guy comes along and you find yourself in the EXACT same situation…
Or, if you’re dating someone who has pulled away, you keep checking your phone 259 times a day to see if he’s texted.
You keep trying to act like the “cool girl” who is happy with crumbs… which makes him try even less until he eventually fades into the distance and you’re left nursing another heartbreak.
I don’t mean to paint such a bleak picture here.
But my point is: this stuff won’t change on its own. A new guy won’t fix it. And nor will a new wardrobe, a smaller waistline or a successful career.
This is about the underlying invisible energy exchange that either makes or breaks a romantic relationship.
And today, you have a unique opportunity to discover how to activate it not only to get the guy, but to save yourself years of heartache, breakups, confusion and all the other messy love stuff that prevents you from getting the love that you secretly fantasize about every night your head hits the pillow.
Only $199 (best value!)
or 4 payments of $49.75
Chances are, if you’re still reading this, your relationship, and maybe every relationship you’ve ever been in, has turned distant, painful and unloving.
Or maybe you can’t even seem to make it to the relationship stage because the guy suddenly disappears after a few dates.
But this can all change, and almost overnight, too.
Because the only thing that’s missing is an understanding of how the masculine and feminine energy exchange works, and subtle changes to your body language and words so you can melt into your feminine power… and melt his heart once again.
Once you discover what I teach in Reconnect Your Relationship, you’ll know EXACTLY how to connect with your man’s heart – with any man’s heart.
You’ll know how to unleash sensual, confident and radiant energy so you feel like a million bucks and become a Siren that’s in hot demand. (Because you will be!)
So don’t wait for another heartbreak until you get help. Or for more years to pass you by.
Take action now so you can reconnect the relationship with the man you really want.
Love,
Only $199 (best value!)
or 4 payments of $49.75